What can I do to Maintain Pregnancy?
Question
I am 23 years old and have had three miscarriages, all within two years. I had two with my ex fiance (we were trying) and one with a man after my fiance left me for another woman thinking I can not have children. Both of them are heavy marijuana smokers. However, the second man has five other children I just found out. I am now beginning to think the problem lies with me. I had some genetic blood work done and the test results showed no abnormalities. My ex fiance and I were trying for about a year and a half to get pregnant, and it seemed very difficult for two people so young. The “one night stand guy” was a BIG mistake on my part and I took the morning after pill the day after we slept together but still was pregnant. These are the only two men I have been with. I just really would like to know if there is some kind of hope for me to have a normal healthy pregnancy and carry to term. My ex wants to try and maybe work things out but only if I can have children, so… All three miscarriges occured around the seventh week. Is there any help for us? I am willing to try anything.
Thank you for your time.
Sincerely,
Lindsay
Answer
Last Updated: September 25, 2013
I would recommend that you contact a Natural Family Planning Practitioner in your area so that you can learn and understand your menstrual cycle. A teacher will help you to recognize the several signs your body gives you about your fertility. These signs or events can give you and your doctor valuable information about your ability to sustain a pregnancy.
At the same time you should make an appointment with an OBGYN for a complete physical examination. Check this website and the links as well for a Natural Family Planning doctor. These doctors are very interested in assisting you in maintaining your fertility.
I can understand your great desire to have a baby. Remember that a baby needs a loving father and mother that love each other very much. Take your time when you are making lifetime decisions.
Yours, Judy Wilmurt
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