I am 54 years old and have used NFP for many years. In the last two years I developed fibroids, causing heavy bleeding in some cycles. I have seen a Gynecologist, who last year suggested ablation, which I was scared to do. This year he said the fibroids are large now, about 6cm, which means the only way is hysterectomy. I went to another Gynecologist outside my insurance group for a second opinion, he said it is not a bad idea, and if I don’t want that I should be on birth control pills to reduce the bleeding.
I know I will not take the pill- I have never taken them in my life. I know from the hormone test I took recently that I am perimenopausal, ie it could happen soon.
My question is if I wait till menopause and as they say the fibroids will shrink, will have no more bleeding so I live a normal life– is this a good idea? Or do I still have to consider hysterectomy, which they tell me has to be total, ie removing the uterus, ovaries and cervix. They tell me that fibroids are not cancerous, but yet they suggest the total hysterectomy.
I always wished I would age naturally, I know I will not take any hormones. I just want to see if it is a good idea to wait until menopause, will the problem be fixed once I stop bleeding?