My wife and I have just started using NFP three months ago. We have not had any formal training, but have read and frequently go back to “The Art of Natural Family Planning” to answer our questions. The one question I can not seem to get a handle on is in checking the cervix. My wife has me do it because she says she can never reach up far enough. She claims her fingers are too short. Anyway, I don’t have a problem doing it, I just don’t understand what I am feeling. I’ve read about hard like the tip of your nose and all that, but I am not 100% sure on how I know if it is open or closed. Short of asking my wife’s Gynecologist if I could assist the next time my wife goes in for an exam (ha ha ha), is there any place I can get easier to understand information on what I am feeling up there?
Thanks for your time!
Jim