I have been trying to get pregnant for about six months now. I realize that this is not a very long time, as many couples try for years. However, because I have achieved pregnancy easily, though unwantedly, in the past while on the pill and with a condom, I am rather surprised that it is taking so long.
I am 32 and I stopped the pill ten years ago, but have had abnormally long (lasting about a week or more) periods since then. At the beginning of last year, I believe I conceived as I had a very unusually heavy period with large blood clots. I almost never have cramps and never need to rest during my period, but I was in bed all day the first day that month.
Since then, my periods have been shorter and heavier (now lasting no more than a week), and I believe that I have conceived twice again. Having been pregnant before, I felt I recognized the early signs of pregnancy, and was certain on both occasions that I was pregnant, but never tested positive on a pregnancy test and my period began only two or three days late.
So now I am left with two possibilities: either I want to be pregnant so badly I am creating the symptoms in my mind, or I have conceived but for some reason do not carry the child through.
I have been practicing the ovulation method (tracking my cervical fluid) and it seems I am ovulating. I have had full tests done on my thyroid and all are perfect. I have not yet checked progesterone etc., and wonder if that’s where I should go from here.
Any advice would be helpful.
Thank you.
Julia