I Need a Doctor to Take My Concerns Seriously!

Question

Hi,
Thank you for your website! It is very easy to use and provides lots of good information. I have recently relocated to a new area (Lancaster, PA) from Richmond, VA and am having a hard time finding a provider who takes my charting and temperature concerns seriously. I have been trying to have a second child for about 18 months now (with one miscarriage at 8 weeks during that time). I have noted that my temps are much lower (post ovulation) now then they were before we conceived our son and my cycle is getting shorter and shorter (now down to 25-26 days). While this may be in the normal range it is not normal for me and I cannot find a provider who will go over my charts with me and take my concerns seriously as my husband and I really desire a large family and are not getting any younger (I am 30 & he is 32). Doctors all want me to wait one year after miscarriage to talk to a fertility specialist and don’t even want to look at my charts or address my low temperature concerns. They all (I have seen 2 at different groups) say well, lets just wait and see. Any advice on how to find a provider to take my concerns and body signs seriously would be appreciated.

Thank you very much!

Amy

Answer

Last Updated: June 3, 2014
YES! Your instincts are good! You need the services of a Creighton Medical Consultant who is trained in NaProTechnology. Look at the directory at www.fertilitycare.org to locate a physician who provides these services, and will take these concerns seriously and recognize their relevance.

Sheila St. John

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Sheila St. John
Sheila St. John is the Executive Director of the California Association of Natural Family Planning, coordinating the non-profit’s education and advocacy efforts throughout the state. Initially attracted to NFP as a healthy, effective method for planning families, drug, device and surgery free, her passion for NFP has grown over the last 42 years as she has journeyed with the over 900 couples she has personally instructed in its use, and been privileged to witness its role in overcoming infertility, women’s health, and the transformation that occurs in lives of men, women, and families, when we embrace God’s design for love and life.

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