Infertility, Miscarriages and Pre-Term Birth

Question

My husband and I have been married for ten years and have always been open to life. We noticed after the first year of marriage we were not conceiving so we began charting using the Billings Method of NFP to conceive and had testing done (nothing wrong). However, we still did not conceive after another year and a half so we let it be, thinking we were trying too hard.
Then we heard about NaProTechnology and learned to chart using the Creighton Model. By charting we (our counselor) found out I had breakthrough bleeding and also brown bleeding at the beginning and end of my cycle which was an indicator that I had low progesterone (which blood tests later confirmed).

We conceived in March and miscarried at five weeks. I was using 25mg of progesterone suppositories (my doc at the time was not keen on progesterone). Six months later, while using 50mg of prog. supp. after ovulation I conceived again. We gave birth to our miracle five weeks early.

And now here we are. This past July I conceived again and at 7.5 weeks we were able to hear the heartbeat 140 beats per minute and see our baby. I was on 200 mg of Prometrium after ovulating in July which helped me conceive. I had asked the doctor (new one) to please check my progesterone levels since I was concerned they may drop. Two weeks later I called since I did not hear from them. They never checked my levels and I miscarried around a week later (11.5 weeks). I did not have a D&C; I miscarried at home. I bled for three weeks, had two weeks of respite and my period came back Nov. 1st, and lasted for ten days, stopped for a day, then I had brown bleeding/spotting.

Today is Nov. 15 and I am lightly bleeding again. Why is this happening? Is it normal? Should I begin Prometrium soon to restart my cycles? We want to conceive again soon……..help.

Louise

Answer

Last Updated: August 15, 2023
Your story breaks my heart, not because it is unique, but precisely because it is so common. Infertility evaluations that say everything is ok, despite the couple’s inability to achieve pregnancy, are just not identifying the problem because they are imprecise and inadequate. You were fortunate to access an NFP professional who was able to provide the tool you needed,precise and specific observation and charting of the biomarkers your body produces, to identify through your charting that there were indeed indications of a problem, and then because of your charting targeted testing could be done at the correct time to accurately identify the hormonal causes.

Your labwork has confirmed low progesterone levels. Inadequate progesterone levels are associated with inability to conceive, miscarriage, and premature birth, all of which you have experienced.

To establish the best foundation for a pregnancy, it is best to restore your levels to normal before conceiving, by supplementing with hormones, perhaps bio-identical progesterone, and documenting levels through labwork, and then monitoring the levels during pregnancy and continuing to supplement as needed. There are established protocols that have been developed to treat this condition, which guide dosage, and also provide parameters of normal levels, both in cycling and pregnancy. These protocols are available to physicians in Dr. Tom Hilgers’ book, “The Medical and Surgical Applications of NaProTechnology”. If your physician is unwilling to provide you the care you need in this area, you can pursue the services of a specialist, a physician trained in these medical therapies. This may be burdensome, requiring you to travel or go outside your insurance network, if such a physician is not available in your community, but the peace of mind you will experience from being correctly monitored will far outweigh the costs.

Another option is to seek a consult with Dr. Hilgers. Your CrM Practitioner can assist you in compiling an appropriate summary of your situation, and submitting along with your charting, to Dr. Hilgers at Pope Paul VI Institute, for his recommendation.

I am sorry for your losses. You did all you could, and should have no misgivings. Given your history, it does seem the prudent thing to do now, is to seek care from a physician that can help you, in a systematic way, prepare your body for the next pregnancy, and manage this aspect of your care throughout the pregnancy. This can be done in collaboration with your local physician providing the routine OB care during the pregnancy.

Sheila St. John

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Sheila St. John
Sheila St. John is the Executive Director of the California Association of Natural Family Planning, coordinating the non-profit’s education and advocacy efforts throughout the state. Initially attracted to NFP as a healthy, effective method for planning families, drug, device and surgery free, her passion for NFP has grown over the last 42 years as she has journeyed with the over 900 couples she has personally instructed in its use, and been privileged to witness its role in overcoming infertility, women’s health, and the transformation that occurs in lives of men, women, and families, when we embrace God’s design for love and life.

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