12 negative pregnancy tests but missed last 2 periods

Question

I have a very irregular cycle and periods are very erratic. I’ve missed my last two periods. I’ve done over 12 urine tests and all have a negative outcome. I’ve had two prior abortions and am very paranoid that I may be pregnant, so I do urine test regularly. I also am a little stressed out about certain issues. I hate doctors and don’t wanna go and get an ultrasound as my boyfriend suggests. Could I be pregnant? Is there any way of finding out without going to a doc? Thank you very much. I’d be very grateful if you help me out.

Answer

Last Updated: July 3, 2013
The modern in-home pregnancy tests (which is what I am assuming you have taken) are very effective as a preliminary indication of pregnancy. While it is possible to get a false positive if you are newly pregnant (sometime within the first few weeks of pregnancy), it is not as likely that this is the case, given the the fact that you have taken over twelve tests in the past months which have all been negative. So something else must be going on with your body. Can you find out what, without medical assistance — probably not. Just as a suggestion, you might consider abstaining from intercourse until you actually know what’s going on with your body, to reduce the possibility of achieving a pregnancy and the possibility (given your prior history) of another abortion.

There are many other possible causes of your erratic cycles. The one that comes to my mind immediately is stress. Physical or emotional stress can in effect “shut down” a woman’s normal cycles of fertiity, causing ovulation much later than anticipated and thereby causing a much longer cycle. That’s only one possibility; there are other causes (organic or hormonal) for which you will need medical evaluation. I can understand your concern if you have had difficulties in the past with doctors. Since you have addressed your letter to this NFP list, you should consider finding one of our NFP doctors. These doctors are concerned with the causes of women’s gynecological problems, not just a quick fix to mask symptoms. I don’t think you would be disappointed with their care. Good luck and really consider that abstinence thing. It will take a weight off your mind if you aren’t engaged in pregnancy-causing behavior.

Pamela Polis

Answered By:

Pam Polis

Read more related questions

Stressed I Might Be Pregnant

I am really stressed. I just got out of a four year relationship and I am worried I might become pregnant. No symptoms but it…

Is Progesterone Supplementation Moral?

I am currently 28 weeks pregnant with my second child. My first was born premature. My ob suggested progesterone injections starting at 16 weeks through…

Are Fibroids Causing Bleeding During Pregnancy?

Hello, I am 45 years old and have large fibroids. I was about to have surgery to remove the womb. I am now seven weeks…

Progesterone in Pregnancy—History of Miscarriage and Pre-Term Delivery

We are seven weeks pregnant after trying for over a year. We miscarried last year after being on Prometrium for low progesterone and infertilty (infertile…

Scared I Am Miscarrying

I am writing because I am 13 weeks pregnant by ultrasound and LMP (but 11 weeks by my chart). This is my 4th pregnancy, I…

Scared Progesterone Can Harm My Baby

I am 32 years old and this is my first pregnancy. I have never had a miscarriage but when I started bleeding (hematoma) at 12…

Should I Stop Nursing Since Pregnant

I am four weeks pregnant with my third pregnancy and still nursing my nine month old pretty frequently. I am 30. I nursed during my…

Desperate for Explanation of Brown Spotting

I had sexual intercourse with my boyfriend and I am currently age 22. I finished my period on March 10th and the last time I…

Is My Progesterone Too Low for 15 Weeks Pregnant?

I am 42 years old and 16 weeks pregnant. I have had four first trimester losses (before nine weeks). I am MTHFR compound hetero (C677…

Did Progesterone Contribute to Baby’s Brain Cyst?

Hi, I was wondering about your knowledge on choroid plexus cysts. There were three found on my baby’s brain at my 19 week sonogram. I…

Estimating Date of Conception

How can my fertility doctor be sure I conceived on May 14? My period started on April 30. My six week five day ultrasound showed…

Could I Be Pregnant Without Intercourse?

I am 18, and my period has not yet become regular, but it has been over two months since my last period, which was June…

Create An Account

This is not a membership, this is an account for our CANFP website. If you decide you would like to sign up for one of our memberships later, you can do so with or without this account.

First Name *
Last Name *
E-mail *
Username *
Password *
Confirm Password *
Edit Profile
Information
Subscriptions
Payments
Order History
Downloads
Shipping and Billing
Donations
Settings
Login Information
Notification Settings
Notification Subscriptions
Profile

CANFP conducts varied outreach programs to the community at large, in addition to serving our members (NFP users, teachers, and advocates).

CANFP provides education programs tailored to the audience, not only on Natural Family Planning, but on the wide variety of topics related to it.

Programs can be continuing education for NFP Professionals, introductory information for a lay audience of youth or adults new to the topic, or specifically tailored to the interests of a professional audience, such as educators, physicians, or clergy. Content is faith based or secular, whichever is suitable for situation.

CANFP offers a variety of resources for those just discovering Natural Family Planning, as well as to meet the varied needs of our CANFP Members. Most resources are available to any visitors to our site. Some resources do ask you to register as a site user in order to access them, others are available only to CANFP Members.

CANFP statewide conferences, regional events offered in collaboration with local partners, events featuring CANFP speakers, or exhbit, as well as other events throughout the state of interest to our NFP community.  Come meet one of our experts at one of these events or book a speaker for your own upcoming event.

CANFP depends on the gifts, talents, and generosity of our members and supporters. The success of our mission depends on the collaboration of our members. Please consider contributing your time treasure and talent through CANFP to share the good news of NFP with the world! Both volunteer and contracted positions available.

Stay informed by joining our email list

* indicates required
Which role(s) best describes you?